Entry: Hope for the best... Tuesday, May 08, 2007



One thing I consider complicated is how to end a relationship, with this regard I mean a professional one. What makes you want to separate from an amazing team and a great boss? What drives you to get out off the comfort zone?

Notice if you're ending a relationship, you start to heed the bad things that were going on in it no matter how small it were. Guess it's the defensive mechanism kicks in to secure the decision. A psychological boost that tells you you're doing the right thing by putting an end to those bad things happened to you.

That's why the best way to do it is to do it quick. You should consider and think about the decision slowly, evaluate all ups and downs, and take all the time you need. But once you decide to take the decision, do it right away and 'get out of there'. Why? Because like I said before, the defensive mechanism will start kicking in, giving you funny ideas, and consumes the nice memories you have. Lucky for me (again), this place gave me much more good memories than the bad ones. Thanks to the great team I worked with.

Well then.. Talk about the passion which dragged me out of the zone. I'm wishing this isn't just a false alarm. It has been with me for a long time, been through some changes in love-hate relationship with it myself. But I realize that the times I loved it were when I had the chance to do it, and the times I hated it were when I didn't. And one more fact to identify your passion is that you're doing it gladly.

So.. I'm hoping for the best that it will turn out well this time, and someday I might say to Steve Jobs: "Thanks Steve, I also found what I love!"


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