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One thing I consider
complicated is how to end a relationship, with this regard I mean a
professional one. What makes you want to separate from an amazing
team and a great boss? What drives you to get out off the comfort
zone? Notice if you're ending a
relationship, you start to heed the bad things that were going on in
it no matter how small it were. Guess it's the defensive mechanism
kicks in to secure the decision. A psychological boost that tells you
you're doing the right thing by putting an end to those bad things
happened to you. That's why the best way
to do it is to do it quick. You should consider and think about the
decision slowly, evaluate all ups and downs, and take all the time
you need. But once you decide to take the decision, do it right away
and 'get out of there'. Why? Because like I said before, the
defensive mechanism will start kicking in, giving you funny ideas, and
consumes the nice memories you have. Lucky for me (again), this place
gave me much more good memories than the bad ones. Thanks to the
great team I worked with. Well then.. Talk about
the passion which dragged me out of the zone. I'm wishing this isn't
just a false alarm. It has been with me for a long time, been through
some changes in love-hate relationship with it myself. But I realize
that the times I loved it were when I had the chance to do it, and
the times I hated it were when I didn't. And one more fact to
identify your passion is that you're doing it gladly. So.. I'm hoping for the best that it will turn out well this time, and someday I might say to Steve Jobs: "Thanks Steve, I also found what I love!" |
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